A question for all the guys!?

One of my girlfriends are in a bit of a situation,and I want to know what you think.Her husband works away a lot,he’s a truckdriver/furniture removalist.On numerous occassions she has found porn in his truck when he gets home.Then one time she also found out that he had also been to a strip club with some workmates.The straw that has broken the camels back is that twice she has found girls underpants in the truck.Of course she freaked out,and after pushing him he said that him and the boys he works with take them from customers they are moving as a joke.
Are we the only ones that just think this is completely ridiculous and unlikely? What is your take,as men,on what is going on here? What do you think she should do or handle it?
Also,do you think there is any chance at all that he is just stupid,but it may actually all be pretty innocent?

Your girlfriend husband should be more stuck on his wedding vows and not be a free man. He has a wife at home who loves him very much and gave him her heart for the rest of their life together, also she is willing to carry his children for nine months. This man should stop and think about what (HE could be threw away) by going to stripe clubs, Having other women panties in his truck there is a problem there, he is most likely cheating on her. The porn he should at less ask his wife to watch it with him so the could send time together. But the other two problems can KILL a marriage in a hurry. Your friend needs to think about what she really want to do with her marriage and he need to think about is actions toward his wife and how his behavior has hurt her feelings and her trust for him. I love my wife with the most deep respect I have as a Firefighter/EMT, and as a warehouse worker for Pepsi of America I would not think of doing that to my wife. Good Luck!

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13 Responses

  1. beastseekbeauty@yahoo.com

    2009 Dec 11 1

    NO – your gf is too jealous. He shoud dump you. I mean her.
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  2. JW

    2009 Dec 11 2

    Not very likely.

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  3. Jenny

    2009 Dec 11 3

    I am not a guy, but I think it’s unlikely that he’s innocent, and if he is, then he should stop following his friends.
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  4. Nasty Na

    2009 Dec 11 4

    i am not a man, but it is known that truck driver’s pick up prostitutes while on the road. he’s lying. if you are married there’s no way he should interested in another woman’s panties.
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  5. Nick

    2009 Dec 11 5

    porn, and strip clubs are fine bc at least hes not pyshically with another women, but the underwear is something to be worried about, even though they say its the customers (why would they take stuff from customers, soo unethical)
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    I’m just you’re average guy. I put my pants on one leg at a time, then I go make miracles.

  6. BRUCE C

    2009 Dec 11 6

    Hope he takes panties in her size.
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  7. drc457

    2009 Dec 11 7

    No he is cheating without a doubt
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  8. good gesser

    2009 Dec 11 8

    Where there’;s smoke there’s fire! but she should also look at the rest of the relationship. Is everything else OK, have there been changes in any departments?? know what I mean?

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  9. BabyBlue is remembering 9/11

    2009 Dec 11 9

    JUat a observation here……but when I have moved I tape up my boxes well. so nothing can be removed.
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  10. JR

    2009 Dec 11 10

    Either he is lying or being ethically stupid. Either one deserves a boot to the head.
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  11. Tom P

    2009 Dec 11 11

    It could be that he’s just stupid, but I doubt it.
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  12. Feythe

    2009 Dec 11 12

    I think that your girlfriend knows whether her husband is a good, honorable man or not.

    If he’s a good man, then she should trust him.

    If he’s not a good man, and if she doesn’t trust him, then she shouldn’t be married to him in the first place.

    And she should definately NOT lower herself to snooping through his truck. Tell her to have some class.
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  13. Firefighter/EMT

    2009 Dec 11 13

    Your girlfriend husband should be more stuck on his wedding vows and not be a free man. He has a wife at home who loves him very much and gave him her heart for the rest of their life together, also she is willing to carry his children for nine months. This man should stop and think about what (HE could be threw away) by going to stripe clubs, Having other women panties in his truck there is a problem there, he is most likely cheating on her. The porn he should at less ask his wife to watch it with him so the could send time together. But the other two problems can KILL a marriage in a hurry. Your friend needs to think about what she really want to do with her marriage and he need to think about is actions toward his wife and how his behavior has hurt her feelings and her trust for him. I love my wife with the most deep respect I have as a Firefighter/EMT, and as a warehouse worker for Pepsi of America I would not think of doing that to my wife. Good Luck!
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