What to expect when moving in with my man?
28 Nov 2009
So, me and my guy have been together for a little over 2 years and we’ve decided to move in together.
Any good stories on moving in?
Any tips/advice?
You will learn a lot of new things about each other.. some good and some bad. You learn to work through things and to compromise. It was a positive experience for me when my husband and I moved in together before we were married. It made me realize that I could spend the rest of my life with him, and I did love him with all my heart. Do not expect it to be all roses though
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htrime
2009 Nov 29 1Dude you won’t be cold anymore and you won’t have to starve or iron
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Bert P
2009 Nov 29 2Have sex at LEAST 3 times a day
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flounder
2009 Nov 29 3Get married, go ahead and make the commitment. Why live together if your not? It’s better to live together married and have everything joint then to fuss over whose is whose because it’s separate when your not married. Been there done that. married is much better.
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DJ
2009 Nov 29 4You probably want to give up on the idea of getting married any time soon. Moving in with a guy tends to significantly delay or permanently postpone nuptials.
He gets free sex, a cook and cleaning service. You get…?
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Smokee
2009 Nov 29 5Don’t play house unless you know for sure it will pay off in the long run. Expect laundry, cooking, cleaning, and all of the things a wife does without the commitment. Expect half a** cleaning from him.
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mimzy
2009 Nov 29 6Now you will really get to know him. You don’t know anyone until you live with them. Don’t be surprised if he changes in a few months. It’s just the way it is.
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linger
2009 Nov 29 7well, its amazing the first few months, then he starts to get comfortable n starts losin his good habits like pickin up after himself an helpin u around the house… but the sex gets better in some ways worse in others… its really nice if u can cook together have ur meals together its really nice and homey……its wonderful to come home to somone u love and just spend ur nite with them… its nice but just keep the communication open n goin otherwise its gona go to shiz hole…
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Hey Honey!!
2009 Nov 29 8You will learn a lot of new things about each other.. some good and some bad. You learn to work through things and to compromise. It was a positive experience for me when my husband and I moved in together before we were married. It made me realize that I could spend the rest of my life with him, and I did love him with all my heart. Do not expect it to be all roses though
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Veni
2009 Nov 29 9You can expect to learn about your mates annoying habits and enjoy spending longer more intimate time. You will either grow together or grow apart.
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dennis.obell
2009 Nov 29 10tell the bum to marry you!
sooner or later those fish farts will really get on your nerves.
then you’ll realize how disgusting the human animal really is
male & female
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red207pilot
2009 Nov 29 11Wait till at least a week before you have your first headache. You have plenty of time to use sex as a weapon, so don’t use it up right away
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*Shannon*
2009 Nov 29 12Hope you have a very good relationship , because things will change. Just be very open. Make decisions together . Don’t try to Control or be controlled. When you got into a fight b4 you went home and he went home. Now u will be in the same house. Work things out b4 they get out of control. Money is always a big issue in a relationship. Plan ahead for the rent and other bills………Good Luck
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One Wing Burning
2009 Nov 29 13No good stories, no bad stories. Stories are stories in my opinion. If you love this man than it should be interesting. You are gonna look at every little thing he does and if it bothers you, you may hold it in, but the truth is he’s not gonna stop doing those little things that guys do when they move in with there girlfriends. Expect the worse and hope for the best and you’ll be fine. It’s how it works. If you have been together for so long, than you know the ups and downs better than any other person on here…. Good luck, but i think you’ll be good
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molly
2009 Nov 29 14be patient as you begin to see all of his little annoying habits. remember you have some too. grow together and dont fight about stupid stuff.
my fiance and i moved in together and for the first 6 months we were laid off of work together. we spent every waking hour together and then we started school at about the same time. i cried when i had to start because i knew how much i would miss him all day. there are good relationships out there. now we are getting married in a month. good luck!
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kayasmommy25
2009 Nov 29 15A lot of adjustments!!! Getting used to each others living styles and cleaning styles! This will be hard. But work together and make adjustments. Be flexible!
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msunshine
2009 Nov 29 16Well, it’s fabulous for your man. He gets all the benefits of marriage with none of the commitment.
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