I want to move out of home, because of various reasons. However, i am terrified! I will just have turned 19 when i want to go to uni. So what is it like? Is it really as bad as it seems? (As in the whole uni life and moving and money issues etc) Personal experiences would be great, and what type of things could be recommended? Thanks.
Don’t be terrified! I remember that when I first moved in six months ago, I was absolutely petrified of moving away from home and into unfamiliar territory. Sure, I’m only 2 hours away from home but that didn’t enter my mind. Every university is different and what we experience at each university is unique and different.
The week of move-in, I was a bundle of nerves and uncertain of how I was going to survive on my own. Move in was a bit hectic but the upperclassmen really helped and within hours my parents left and I was left to my own devices. I was actually lost for 2 hours, trying to get back to my room after eating!
Unlike some of the universities in the US, mine is modeled after the Cambridge model, where students are divided into different colleges. Within this colleges, students were housed in different halls, with each floor having about 5-6 suites, with around 8 students in each suite. I was lucky enough to get a single, so whenever I needed alone time, I could get it. Others weren’t that lucky but they had roommates while I’m all on my lonesome self. I really love my suite setup, because I’ve gotten to know my suitemates really well.
College life is how you make it. I really suggest you check out some of the organizations at your school to find out what clubs and activities interest you. You can make so many friends in those and it gives you an opportunity to participate at school! Don’t be shy, believe it or not, there’s so many people out there who share the same interests as you.
What really helped me with the transition to uni, was collections of photos with my family and friends in my room. It really helps me when I’m feeling lonely or sad. Don’t forget to phone the parents and friends!
For move-in, unless you live very far away from home, DO NOT bring your entire closet. you will go shopping and in the end, you won’t have enough hangers or space for them. Do bring snacks and food because college food does get tiring after a while and it’s good to have a healthy nutritious snack to counter the negative effects of the fast food. I have spent quite a lot of money in college, mostly on books, but I have financial aid so I’m set. my school has a system where you use a card to pay for your food so I haven’t really spent my own money per se on food. Just make sure you have limits on what you spend because you’ll definitely find yourself eyeing a couple of things when you go out with friends.
The first few nights are the hardest because you’re in unfamiliar territory but after that, you’ll feel more comfortable at school than at home! Make some new friends and experience all that college has to offer and you’ll love it!
Also have quarters for laundry.